
My
last post was done a few hours before I got word that my youngest
brother was being taken from one hospital to another because of a blood
clot about 5 fingers above his right outer ankle. So things have been a
bit busy since then.
He had 4 1/2 hours of surgery
that same night for it, got very upset with his wife/so the next morning
when she wouldn't give him something to drink or eat (he was still on
nothing by mouth), so he told her they were finished. She told the
nurses she was leaving his room since her being there & not
giving him something was agitating him. She found a couple of chairs
& went to sleep. Later that morning (Thursday the 8th now), I
got a text from his 20 yo daughter that the dr wanted to do more
surgery, said he hadn't gotten it all, but my brother wouldn't even
consider it until he saw his wife. I couldn't get her on the phone -
didn't realize she had my brother's cell phone & she had changed
#'s & I didn't know it - so was sending texts to the wrong #
for her. Finally, my boss said leave, so I left & drove the 75
miles there. Was able to calm him down some by touching his arm,
talking to him, etc. He very much wanted a cigarette - was a 3-4 pack a
day smoker - was refusing the patch to help him with the cravings - I
even told him I would stick it where he couldn't reach it, if they would
give it to me. But he never agreed to it. He was in ICU from Thursday
morning until Friday, then in a normal room until Monday.
Before
I left on Thursday night, he told me if I left, I didn't love him. I
told him if he didn't take the patch, he didn't love me! He also told
his daughter - after she found a ride to get there, that if she went to
work the next day, Friday, that she didn't love him either. I told him
he was definitely being the spoiled youngest brother!
I
went to work on Friday, then drove up Friday night to see him. Came
home, Saturday about noon, I left to drive up again. On Thursday I had
sent a text to my sister & oldest brother asking if they would
like to ride up with me on Thursday evening, if he were allowed
visitors. They both had turned me down. My sister was moving. So when
I left about noon Thursday, I didn't even ask if they wanted to ride
with me - figured if they couldn't ride up in the evening, why would I
think they could a few hours earlier. On Saturday was told by my oldest
brother that he would have riden with me - don't know what had happened
to the helping my sister move that would have allowed him to be free.
But anyway, the 2 of them & their s/o & her 2 youngest
children drove up on Saturday - only stayed about 30 minutes before
saying they had to leave to find a motel.
Sunday I
stayed home to do all our taxes. Got a call Sunday morning from my
oldest brother asking if the youngest was still in the hospital - said
as far as I knew although there had been some talk of a possible
dismissal, if he walked at least with a walker (the foot was still cold,
a lump had developed higher on the leg that was painful, but the warmth
seemed to gradually be moving down into the foot) - which he didn't do
until Monday. So he was held until Monday after he walked. I
understand the sister & oldest brother did go back for about
another hour on Sunday.
Monday I got a call that he was
on his way home & wanted me to come up & spend the
night. I told him I did have to work on Tuesday, so he said Tuesday
night (I also was still really tired on Monday). I suggested that I
wait until the weekend when I wouldn't have to hurry back for work. So
the plan was that I would go up on Saturday & spend the night.
Which I did. Friday I called to make my Avon deliveries & then
after doing all except 1 by noon on Saturday, I headed out. Saturday
evening, we went to Salina to pick up his prescription for diabetic
monitoring items - he has been diagnosed as being diabetic and was told
that the smoking probably was the cause of the clot. His blood is very
thick, so currently he is on coumadin & a 325 mg aspirin each
day to thin it. So while he hadn't 100% quit smoking, he has cut way
down, says when they are all gone, he won't be buying more & his
wife says the same. They also are all planning to follow his diet at
home so that he doesn't feel singled out. Which isn't a bad idea anyway
- pretty much the whole family is overweight by at least a few pounds
& most by a lot.
While I was going, I took
along some DVD's that I had bought recently from Amazon that are movies
we watched as children. Although the ones we watched as children were
8mm silent movies & we never knew there was a sound track to
them -
Abbott & Costello in the Foreign Legion and
Hop-Along Cassidy in Bar 20 Rides again.
My brother's son loved Abbott & Costello. Hop-A Long Cassidy
meant more, I think, to the 2 of us since we had always watched it, but
no one else really cared for it. Anyway, we watched those on Saturday
evening, Sunday morning before I left to come home.
He
had a Dr visit this past Tuesday to check his coumadin levels. Then he
stayed in the car while everyone else did some grocery shopping, so
ended up with his leg & foot hurting a bit. Then a PT session
on Friday which left him pretty sore. He also went to a band concert
for his youngest daughter. Saturday was his wife's family reunion,
which he didn't want to go to, but she told him he needed to go. I told
him the same - he needs to not think he needs to hide his physical
disabilities now (he already had some with his spine & his
heart). So he was tired after that.
On a better note, I g

ot
quite a bit of knitting done during this time, but also found out I
misread my instructions for shaping, so ended up taking most of it out.
I currently have the 2 sleeves & the front of E's sweater
on the needles. Should have that about done by the end of this week.
Have been looking online for patterns & such to be used in the May newsletter for the
Carolinas Machine Knitting Guild
I belong to & help with the newsletter for. I try to have all
that done by the 15th of each month so that the editor can have it all
put together for us to proof-read before the end of the month as we must
publish on the 1st of each month. So I am behind on that. We had a
couple of back ordered products at work come in, so we had to work on
getting those orders all right back out the door. And now the owners
have decided to launch a fundraising plan for churches, so we have been
printing, signing, folding & stuffing & printing
envelopes for that this past week or so. So lots of things going on at
work.
This weekend was the start of the 2 nights in a
row plan for the grandkids visits with me. Since I no longer am working
at my son's gym 4 evenings a week, I decided to expand what the
grandkids got to do with me by 1 night. It also will mean most of the
time, that it saves me some gas now that they live 30 miles away. I
always take 1 of the grandkids on the weekend that our soon to be sil
gets his daughters - their mother brings them to Hutchinson or South
Hutchinson to be exchanged, so if I pick them up on Friday evening
& deliver them at the same time I pick up a grandchild, I can
not only include 1 of his daughter in dinner with us before heading
home, but they can bring his daughters back to their mother on Sunday
& pick up the grandchild I have. Which means neither of us will
need to make two 60 mile round trips on that weekend to get them all
exchanged. Except this weekend & the next 2 coming up - he
didn't have his daughters this weekend for whatever reason, but will
have them for 2 weekends in a row after this, but next weekend isn't my
normal weekend with the grandkids & the following weekend is our
33rd wedding anniversary weekend, so unless our son boxes in MO that
weekend, I don't intend to have grandkids or anything like that. My dh
should be off work on Friday & Saturday as his normal 2 days
off. So thinking about getting tickets to a
dinner & show
for us. They almost closed this theatre, but another group took it
over finally. We have gone 2-3 times in the past & I really
want to find a time that I can take all the grandkids & the soon
to be grandkids to it

.
They will be doing Jack & the Beanstalk from July 9th to
August 14th, so maybe that would be the show to take them to.
Friday
as I was heading home with my grandson, it was raining on us. We saw a
rainbow. I got out of the van to take a picture of the 2 ends
& we found that it was a double rainbow!
Hope everyone has a great rest of their Sunday & a good week coming up!
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So sorry that your job is ending. How hard do you think it will be to find another?